The Oscar-winning actress Explains Why She Declined an On-Set Intimacy Professional on Latest Project Die My Love
The acclaimed actress has become part of the increasing number of actors who express doubts about the essential need of on-set intimacy professionals, revealing she chose not to use their services while filming her new movie her upcoming film.
Understanding the Role of On-Set Intimacy Professionals
Intimacy coordinators were introduced following the #MeToo movement to guarantee the security and comfort of performers during scenes involving partial undress and sexual content. Yet, numerous prominent performers including Jennifer Aniston and other established stars have voiced concerns about their presence, with some claiming they disrupt creative flow.
Jennifer's Personal Experience
In conversation on the popular culture podcast, while discussing her new film where she portrays a character descending into mental health challenges, Lawrence commented: "We chose not to use an intimacy coordinator, or perhaps we did have one but didn't really utilize them... I felt completely safe with Rob."
She elaborated: "He is not pervy and deeply devoted to Suki Waterhouse. What we discussed mostly revolved around family life and relationships. There was absolutely no awkward tension or doubts about professional limits."
"Had there been even a hint of unease, I would have requested an intimacy coordinator. Many male actors get upset if you aren't interested in their advances, and subsequently the negative treatment starts. He was not like that."
Professional Validation and Continuing Discussion
Earlier this week, industry platform IMDb formally acknowledged intimacy coordinators as a separate category, together with multiple additional crew positions including dance direction, craft services, and puppetry. Before this, they were grouped under "miscellaneous staff" rather than having their own designation.
Notwithstanding this validation, these professionals continue to face public discussion suggesting they aren't necessarily industry essential, with well-known performers declining their involvement. Jennifer's viewpoint echoes that of another prominent actress, who previously shared she declined intimacy coordination while working with Jon Hamm on their television series.
Jennifer's Perspective
"Jon was extremely respectful – I mean every move, between takes, 'Are you OK?" she remembered. "The scenes were also carefully planned. That's the benefit of working with skilled editors, appropriate music. So, you don't prepare."
She added, "Production suggested, 'Having someone check if you're comfortable,' and I responded, 'Please, this is awkward enough!' We're experienced professionals – we can handle this. And we had our director present."
Other Examples and Professional Response
Although including multiple sequences of intimate moments and frequent nudity, Anora – Sean Baker's Oscar-winning project about a adult entertainer and a Russian oligarch's son – proceeded without an intimacy coordinator.
The film's star stated she and fellow actor Mark Eydelshteyn "concluded it would be best to keep it small."
"My character is a professional in adult entertainment, and I had researched the director's work and understood his dedication to realism. I was mentally prepared for it. As an performer, I treated it as part of my job."
These statements provoked strong reactions from intimacy coordinators, mirroring the response to another actress's public statements, who earlier this year revealed that working on her forthcoming project her latest film represented her initial experience with the relatively new profession, which she "was unaware of previously."
Gwyneth's Viewpoint
During filming about comfort level with a specific move alongside fellow actor Timothée Chalamet, the actress answered: "I belong to the generation where you get naked, you get in bed, the camera's on."
She continued that she and her co-star then told the professional: "We believe we're good. You can step back.' I can't speak to how it is for emerging actors, but... if someone is instructing, '{OK, then he's going to place his hand here,' I would feel, as an artist, extremely restricted by that."
Professional Reaction
Following these comments, former Channel 4 drama head Caroline Hollick labeled them "concerning" and pointed out that the majority of those opposing intimacy coordinators have established careers to command their own power and protection on film sets.
"Periodically an performer makes comments about whether they appreciate on-set professionals or not," said Hollick. "Gwyneth Paltrow stated she grew up in a period when industry professionals 'took our kit off and proceeded professionally'. As a powerful woman in Hollywood performing alongside a actor much younger than her, although likely he is chill, I considered it somewhat concerning statement."
Male Perspective
The veteran actor, meanwhile, shared that he believes the main obligation during intimate sequences rests with the male actor, rather than a third party.
"In my experience, you take responsibility as the male actor to ensure the woman is comfortable, you talk through completely," he said. "You state, '{OK, I'm going to make contact there if that's agreeable'. It's very deliberate but appears like it's occurring organically, which is hopefully what authentic performance looks like."